Decision

Tuesday, January 17, 2006 22:38
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I never thought there would be a time when I’d have to choose between two men. And I didn’t anticipate that it would be such a difficult decision.

That was till I realized that neither of them was really a choice for me.

Making the right choice is never difficult…it is the only choice.
It is deciding between the available options that’s really tough.

There’s only enough space at the top for one.
Second-place is infinitely vast, however.

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34 Responses to “Decision”

  1. choc_ice says:

    January 18th, 2006 at 12:08 am

    choose between 2 men, but neither of them is the right one? very intriguing!

    P.S Im the first to comment! wow!

  2. anonymity says:

    January 18th, 2006 at 4:21 am

    Lucky you are then, to be able to consider more than one.
    There can be no second place.

  3. iyer education says:

    January 18th, 2006 at 2:26 pm

    Making the right choice is never difficult…it is the only choice.
    It is deciding between the available options that’s really tough.

    beautiful… how do u come up with such lines…

    and who are the (un)lucky two ;) *jus kiddin*

  4. abhi says:

    January 18th, 2006 at 5:25 pm

    u were into men?

    (no pun intended)

  5. Brad says:

    January 19th, 2006 at 1:18 am

    Making the right choice is never difficult…it is the only choice.
    It is deciding between the available options that’s really tough.

    I think the above is just a deliberate play on words; orotund talk. ‘Making the right choice’ is the sequel to ‘Deciding between the available options’. Once you ‘decide’, then you ‘choose’.

  6. Frigid Midget says:

    January 19th, 2006 at 3:58 am

    Smithy darlin, definitely you’d be one of those precious few! (You know what I am talking about;)

    Will definitely call you once I am back and dare you pick anyone but me…hehehe

  7. IdeaSmith says:

    January 19th, 2006 at 8:48 am

    choc_ice: Thank you for stopping by.

    anonymity: Ever heard of consolation prizes?

    iyer: None that matter now. Happened awhile ago and got me thinking that’s all.

    abhi: Sure I was…still am. I write a blog about it!

    brad: Am making a distinction between a choice (that’s something that feels right, is the meant-to-be fit) and a desicion (which is just finding the least troublesome alternative, the most viable one etc).

    Midget: Wonderful! And its a promise (now you know what I’m talking about).Will mail you meantime.

  8. Heretic says:

    January 19th, 2006 at 12:28 pm

    Thought I had left a comment yesterday, and strangely it appears to be not so.

    Anyways, if you were in the position to choose between two, it must have felt great until the moment of making the choice. :-)

  9. Sensorcaine says:

    January 19th, 2006 at 1:01 pm

    why choose daaah-ling? Indecision’s such fun! wheee!

  10. M (tread softly upon) says:

    January 20th, 2006 at 2:56 am

    Stopped here and in your other blogs. You have a wonderful bunch of good things going here. Will come back for sure.
    And thanks for dropping by mine!

  11. anonymity says:

    January 20th, 2006 at 6:19 am

    Exactly, it’s called a ‘Consolation’ Prize.

  12. Sundar says:

    January 20th, 2006 at 8:30 am

    conflists are always within…just manifest outside…

  13. Inkblot says:

    January 21st, 2006 at 12:06 am

    Well done girl. Love the spirit, and the graphic.

  14. The Soul Doctor says:

    January 21st, 2006 at 1:36 am

    Hi Idea smithy

    I guess those two guys just got lucky. They would find someone better!

    What says you?;)

    Karthik

  15. Blue Athena says:

    January 21st, 2006 at 1:51 am

    Great belief this gurl!

    “Making the right choice is never difficult…it is the only choice.”

    Be strong. And always go by what your instincts tell you.
    :)

  16. Brad says:

    January 21st, 2006 at 3:01 am

    It is still a play on words, I think. A ‘choice’ is made after ‘choosing’. And what goes into making that choice. A decision. So primarily, ‘decision’ equates to ‘choice’.

  17. TwistedNoggin says:

    January 21st, 2006 at 7:33 am

    I beleive that, if there is a delima in chosing between two people then that proves neither one is right.

  18. Demi Goddezz says:

    January 21st, 2006 at 10:36 am

    :) choose wisely …u shudnt look back and say u made the wrong choice… good luck!

  19. Arz000n says:

    January 21st, 2006 at 7:56 pm

    Choosing between more than one person is always difficult…thats why, I always keep options open…it works for me…

    So what you decided?

  20. Illiterate Sneha says:

    January 22nd, 2006 at 3:08 pm

    //There’s only enough space at the top for one.
    Second-place is infinitely vast, however.

    Oh beautifully said!
    Absolutely true.

  21. Anonymous says:

    January 23rd, 2006 at 10:17 am

    Looking for ideas .. contribute please

    Moonie
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  22. ganty says:

    January 23rd, 2006 at 1:33 pm

    the last line articulates the voice of all mediocres
    good post

  23. The Lone Rangers says:

    January 24th, 2006 at 6:36 pm

    Wow that is a tough choice. As always Smithy you’re very profound with the statement “Second place is infinately vast”!

  24. Menagerie says:

    January 25th, 2006 at 5:02 am

    Interesting post..good luck with the decision making

  25. Archster says:

    January 25th, 2006 at 12:35 pm

    its always fun till u get to that point where u know u have to make a decision!

    good luck with that!

  26. ganty says:

    January 25th, 2006 at 1:06 pm

    visit my blog and read the latest post
    i thnk u will like it (this is what i call audacious confidence in my paucity of talent)

  27. Grafxgurl says:

    January 25th, 2006 at 1:33 pm

    hi..first time here. through Mahi’s blog… :D
    it is hard to choose….but its even harder to not hurt one…
    ..are these two good for you?…why are they not choices for you?

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    January 26th, 2006 at 4:43 pm

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    click on the link below:
    http://www.business-opportunities.biz/projects/how-much-is-your-blog-worth/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fideasmithy.blogspot.com

    and you shall know

  29. APOO says:

    January 27th, 2006 at 5:06 am

    “There’s only enough space at the top for one.”

    Not really… kinda depends how bold you are and how much you plan to experiment! ;)

  30. Debalina says:

    January 27th, 2006 at 4:51 pm

    I guess the difficult part of choosing is choosing without hurting.
    Sometimes,we tend to hurt one or the other,during the decision making.

  31. Arunima says:

    January 27th, 2006 at 7:03 pm

    Sometimes, I wish I did not have options. I end up hurting a lot of people.

  32. infinity says:

    January 29th, 2006 at 3:24 am

    second place means ur the king of the losers…

  33. 4WD says:

    February 1st, 2006 at 2:20 am

    Its like choosing between two jobs. Choices choices. You know whats funny, some people would pay to have choices, and here we are, hating ourselves for them.

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    February 3rd, 2006 at 5:39 pm

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