The Idea-smithy

To my friends in so many places,
I’m upset. Badly so.
I’m not okay with your calling me only when you have problems in your love life. I’m struck even worse by the fact that you have no time to hear about my love life problems or worse, that you don’t even think that’s a problem.
I can [...]

If I’m a fool to trust you, what does that say about you?
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Nobody’s born suspicious. We trust because we think other people are the way we are. Then someone hurts us and we think everyone else is that way.
Treat every suspicious person you meet, gently. Maybe they’ve been hurt really bad.
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What have you ever lost [...]

Romance is dead, this is true.
Romance is just a myth foisted on the world by men to keep women chained to their stupidity.
Which is why I think romance and its sorry butt can get kicked, strangled, have acid poured down its eyeballs, buried barely breathing and have its grave danced upon.
Instead I’ll just switch off [...]

I shut down Behind Cobwebs over a year back. I miss it today. I shut it because I thought I was getting to be too negative and that just having a place to put it was encouraging even more negativity.
Today, with nearly three times more visibility and so much more cheeriness that I’ve dredged up [...]

Yes, there’s more.
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Do banished memories go to hell? I hope not, ‘cos I’ll only end up meeting them there again. Besides they deserve better, so much better than the  darkness in my mind.
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A friend who hurts you
….is the one most likely to come back and apologize 
….is the one that deserves forgiveness the least.
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If intimacy is what [...]

If you must start the conversation,
I will be the one to end it.
If the conversations end whenever you want them to,
I’ll decide when and whether they should start again.
A conversation between equals deserves balance everywhere.

Anger can destroy everything in my line of sight,
in one magnificent explosion
Or it can eat into life itself, silently
like a single drop of acid on your skin every day.